21st Century Spielberg: Steven Spielberg Goes To Cinematic Therapy With The Fabelmans

(Welcome to 21st Century Spielberg, an ongoing column and podcast that examines the challenging, sometimes misunderstood 21st-century filmography of one of our greatest living filmmakers, Steven Spielberg. In this edition: "The Fabelmans.")

In Susan Lacy's 2017 documentary "Spielberg," Steven Spielberg states: "I've avoided therapy because movies are my therapy." The legendary filmmaker is laughing as he says this, but the comment is telling. In fact, it can pretty much sum up Spielberg's entire career — and personal life.

It can certainly sum up "The Fabelmans," Spielberg's most personal film; the autobiographical story of his childhood that he's been talking about making for years now. Here, Spielberg isn't giving himself a pat on the back and singing his own artistic talents. Instead, he's confronting his own mythology head-on. He's turning the pages of the book backward and investigating what he finds.

Yes, the Spielberg avatar in "The Fabelmans" — young Sammy Fabelman — shows signs of being a great filmmaker. But that's not what "The Fabelmans" is about. It's about Spielberg's own unique form of therapy — the movies — analyzing what goes on in the director's messy mind. As Sammy says late in the film, his thoughts are always chaotic. He even ends up having panic attacks.

It's his work that calms him down. Spielberg, and Sammy, can't control the real world. But they can control the world they create on the screen. More than that, they can shut out the real world that way. As Sammy Fabelman's personal life begins to fall apart, it's his art that keeps him going. Because as much as Sammy loves his family, he loves making movies more. Maybe not much more, maybe just a tiny bit. But more. It's like Spielberg is almost apologizing here for being such a workaholic, and trying to explain why he does what he does.

When it came time to finally make this movie, Anne Spielberg's script was out, and Steven Spielberg's script was in — with more than a little help from Tony Kushner. Kushner has joined the ranks of John Williams and Janusz Kamiński as one of Spielberg's greatest collaborators. Kushner seems to "get" Spielberg better than any other writer the filmmaker has worked with over the years, and their collaborations — "Munich," "Lincoln," "West Side Story," and now "The Fabelmans" — rank among some of Spielberg's best movies.

It was surely for the best that Spielberg work with a collaborator on this script rather than tackle the entire thing himself. Otherwise, the filmmaker might've avoided more uncomfortable elements — elements that Kushner surely pushed Spielberg to ultimately explore. It likely helped that the two already had a good working relationship.

"I would not have been able to co-author this film without somebody I truly, dearly admired and adored, and somebody who knew me so well, and whom I so loved and respected, and that happened to be Tony Kushner," Spielberg said. "The only thing that mattered was that I could open up to somebody, unpack all of my suitcases in front of somebody and never feel embarrassed or ashamed."

Spielberg gave Kushner 81 pages of notes that the screenwriter then shaped into an outline. "I had to think through like how to connect these things," the writer said. "With the inimitable depth of familiarity and subjective understanding that Steven brought to this material, it's also good to have somebody who is standing on the outside looking in."

As it turns out, Leah was the one who instigated the separation — because she had fallen in love with Arnold's best friend, Bernie Adler, someone the Spielberg kids thought of as an uncle. This was initially kept from Spielberg and his siblings, and in the "Spielberg" documentary, Arnold even states that he deliberately never told the kids that Leah divorced him — he let them think he divorced her. When asked why, he says he was "protecting her because she's fragile."

This marital subterfuge resulted in an estrangement between Spielberg and his father that lasted about 15 years and found its way into Spielberg's movies. The Spielberg dads are often prone to up and leave their family behind — husband and father Roy Neary blasts off to space at the end of "Close Encounters of the Third Kind." Elliott's longing for his absentee father leads him to befriend an extra-terrestrial in "E.T." And nearly every (male) Spielberg protagonist you can think of has daddy issues — even Indiana Jones.

Spielberg would eventually reconcile with his father. And with "The Fabelmans," you start to think that not only is Spielberg telling the story of his own life, but he's also offering one last olive branch to his father, who died in 2020. The Arnold figure in the film, Burt Fabelman, played by Paul Dano, is committed to his work, and prone to uprooting his family to go wherever his job takes him. But he's also portrayed by Dano as a kind, sensitive man who ultimately ends up alone. Dano and Spielberg make this character wholly sympathetic, and there's a late shot in the film where Spielberg frames Dano from a low angle, surrounded by white space with a sad look on his face, and he appears to be the loneliest man in the world. Our heart breaks for him.

In "The Fabelmans," the Fabelman family act as stand-ins for Spielberg and his kin. While this is a dramatized series of events, it also sticks very closely to Spielberg's true story, or at least the true story he's willing to tell — late in the film, the director holds his camera on a poster for "The Man Who Shot Liberty Valance," a film famous for giving us the saying "print the legend." Spielberg is printing the legend here; he's telling his story in the most cinematic way he knows how. He's also conducting his own version of a therapy session — the filmmaker gave multiple interviews stating that shooting some scenes of "The Fabelmans" moved him to tears.

"I made a promise to myself that I was going to stay professional," the director said. "There was going to be a distance between myself and the subject. But it was hard to do. The story kept tugging me back to actual memories. Recreating things that had actually happened to me, seeing them unspool in front of me, it was a wicked, weird experience. It was just like nothing I have ever gone through before."

Spielberg's avatar in the film is Sammy Fabelman, played by Mateo Zoryan Francis-DeFord as a child and then by Gabriel LaBelle as a teenager and beyond. Like Spielberg, Sammy is introduced to the world of movies through a screening of Cecil B. DeMille's 1952 circus film "The Greatest Show on Earth." And like Spielberg, Sammy is afraid of the whole concept of going to the movies for the first time.

Again, this is all pulled directly from Spielberg's life. In "Spielberg: A Retrospective," the filmmaker states:

"I was infatuated with the control that movies gave me, in creating a sequence of events — a train wreck with two Lionel trains that I could then repeat and see over and over again. I think it was just a realization that I could change the way I perceived life through another medium, to make it come out better for me ... to see if what I was making was having an effect on anybody other than myself."

Sammy is instantly hooked on filmmaking and begins making home movies with his sisters. As he gets older (and is played by Gabriel LaBelle), Sammy is still making movies, using his friends and family as actors in elaborate productions. His mother is clearly impressed with her son's affinity for moving pictures, but Burt looks on all of this as a hobby; a flight of fancy that won't ever amount to much. It's not that he doesn't believe in his son. It's that his analytical mind can't allow him to think there's any real financial future in creating art.

Meanwhile, cracks in the foundation of the Fabelman marriage begin to widen and grow. When Burt gets a job in Arizona and has to up and move his family there from New Jersey, Mitzi is insistent that Burt bring along his best friend and co-worker Bennie, played by Seth Rogen. Sammy isn't privileged to this conversation, but Bennie does end up accompanying the family to Arizona. And it's here where Sammy finally begins to see through those cracks.

The camping trip will end up being a catalyst, as will what happens after. Mitzi's mother dies, plugning her into depression and hearlding the arrrival of her Uncle Boris, played by Judd Hirsch. Boris is an artist — he worked in the movies in the 1920s, and before that, he was a lion tamer at the circus. Or so he says.

Burt wants Sammy to cut the footage from the camping trip into a movie to cheer Mitzi up, and it's this footage Sammy is working on when Boris visits. Boris sees the artist within Sammy. "You and me, we're junkies. Art is our drug. Family, we love. But art? We're mashugana for art," he tells Sammy, and then speaks something that all artists have likely thought at one point: he knows that Sammy loves his family, but he also knows that Sammy loves making movies more. Maybe just a little bit more, but still more.

Sammy denies this — who wants to admit they don't love their family as much as their work? — but in this dialogue you can see Spielberg grappling with his insecurities and loneliness. As Uncle Borris puts it, "Art will give you crowns in heaven and laurels on earth, but it'll tear your heart out and leave you lonely." Does Steven Spielberg, the most successful filmmaker of all time, feel lonely? Of course he does. Because his work is more than work to him; it's something sacred. It's something he gives himself entirely to. It's something others might not understand. And, most important of all, it's something he is able to exert control over.

Sammy exerts that control over the camping trip movie by creating a pleasant representation of family fun. But there's a director's cut of this movie: one in which Mitzi and Bennie can be frequently seen together in the background, embracing, holding hands, cuddling. The realization is slow to dawn on Sammy while he's editing the footage, and when he finally sees it, he jumps up and backs away from his editing machine as if he's just watched a jump-scare.

It's the final half of the film, when the Fabelmans arrive in California, that "The Fabelmans" truly comes into its own. Primarily because it's in this section of the film that Sammy's parents take a backseat and Sammy becomes more of a protagonist.

It's in California that Sammy gets his first real dose of antisemitism thanks to his high school classmates, particularly from Logan (Sam Rechner), a jock who looks like he stepped off an Aryan Youth recruitment poster. Spielberg is proud of being Jewish and is responsible for creating the USC Shoah Foundation, which creates audio-visual interviews with survivors of the Holocaust. But there was a time in the filmmaker's life where he felt ashamed of his Jewish roots. In the "Spielberg" documentary, he talks about how there was a period where he would essentially deny his Jewish roots. And in the same doc, his sister Anne states: "Steven did not want to be Jewish."

While the antisemitism is appropriately unpleasant in "The Fabelmans," there's never a moment where Sammy, like Spielberg, flat-out tries to deny his Jewish identity. There's a moment when he angrily tells his father that he feels like an outcast because they're the only Jewish family for miles, but that's not quite the same as trying to shrug off one's identity.

"Part of the reason that we bonded during 'Munich' the way that we did was that we both have a very powerful, bone-deep love of being Jewish and Judaism," said Tony Kushner. "That was just going to be part of what the story [of 'The Fabelmans'] was going to be — a story about a Jewish family."

In the midst of all this, the gulf growing between Burt and Mitzi becomes too vast to bridge. Spielberg continually gives us loaded images to heighten the divide. After watching one of Sammy's movies — a World War II epic made with friends — Burt turns to comment on the film to Mitzi. But the second he does so, Mitzi turns away to talk about the movie with Bennie, who is sitting on her opposite side. When she does this, Spielberg has the camera pan over so that Mitzi and Bennie are in frame and Burt is completely absent, as if he vanished.

Later, when the Fabelmans move to a new house in California, the entire clan rushes into the abode to check things out, but Mitzi hangs back, lurking int he doorway like a vampire waiting to be invited in. Eventually, Burt picks her up to carry her over the threshold while Sammy films it all. And while Burt looks happy as can be carrying his wife, Mitzi's smile looks forced, and she flashes a rather sad look to the camera in her son's hands. 

Mitzi is an emotional wreck without Bennie, and so the Fabelmans decide to split up, much to the tearful horror of their children. But again: Spielberg is taking pains not to blame anyone here. Yes, the decision is ultimately arrived at because Mitzi is in love with someone else. But Spielberg also gives the character a coda in which Mitzi tells Sammy that she knows what she's doing is selfish, and that Burt deserves better — but she has to do it because she has to follow her heart. We all do. It's the payoff to an early scene with Uncle Boris, in which he tells Sammy about how Mitzi abandoned her dreams of playing the piano professionally. She didn't follow her heart then, and now she is. She's doing what she feels is right for her, because the heat wants what the heart wants, as the saying goes. Selfish? Sure. Realsitic and understandable? Of course. 

I will admit I expected Spielberg to go a little further. To stick with Sammy as he breaks into TV and then the movies. But this is ultimately the perfect place to end the story — Sammy's parents have split up but he's in a better place with both of them. And his future is bright. Now if only we could've gotten a post-credit scene where Spielberg's avatar meets a stand-in for George Lucas. Oh well, save it for the sequel.

"This is the hardest film I've had to say goodbye to," Spielberg said. "I cannot even imagine going through my career without having told this story. This movie, for me, was like a time machine, and to have that time machine suddenly turn off, and now all the memories are locked into place, and they have an order, they're going to be edited together, and that's going to be it ... well, as Thomas Wolfe said, and he's right, 'You can't go home again.' And I realized at the end of shooting 'The Fabelmans' that I would never be able to go home again. But at least I've got this to share."

"The Fabelmans" is unquestionably the most personal film Spielberg has ever made. It's also pretty damn wonderful, and more proof that even at this late stage of his career, Spielberg is still swinging for the fences and knocking it out of the park in the process. That said, the film also feels like something of a stepping stone. Or rather, it feels like something Spielberg had to finally get out of his system. A cinematic therapy session. He's spent decades talking about making this movie, and now he finally has. And since he's a workaholic, he can't stop, won't stop. And I can't wait to see what he does next.