Did Aunt May Know About Peter's Superhero Life In Spider-Man 2? Let's Play Fan Theory Detective

The term "alter ego" is a Latin phrase that translates to the beautiful oxymoron of "alternate self." In ancient literature, alternate selves were typically presented as dark omens; doppelgängers and the like. The idea of hiding one's identity and surreptitiously committing acts of heroism perhaps originated in pop literature with the publication of Baroness Orczy's "The Scarlet Pimpernel" in 1905, and was further codified by the publication of Johnston McCulley's "The Curse of Capistrano," the 1919 pulp novel starring Zorro. 

I bring up these literary antecedents as the model on which all modern superheroes have been explicitly based. The distance between the Scarlet Pimpernel and the Scarlet Spider is not so great. The appeal of an alter ego, or a secret identity, should be self-evident. Not only does it allow a superhero character to appear as a free agent, outside of the law and free from being identified, but it allows a young reader to project themselves (or someone they know) into the masked costume. I may be nothing now, but none of you know I'm secretly Spider-Man. 

The notion of the secret identity remained an important part of superhero lore until, oddly enough, "Iron Man" in 2008. One might note that there are few secret identities in the Marvel Cinematic Universe. This has led to surreal scenes of supernatural beings calling each other "Steve" or "Bucky."

In Sam Raimi's 2004 film "Spider-Man 2," however, the alter ego was still of paramount importance to the lead character (Tobey Maguire). Indeed, Peter Parker's secret identity was a source of a great deal of anxiety, as revealing it would put his aunt May (Rosemary Harris) at risk of villain attack. 

But it's entirely possible Peter needn't have worried. Aunt May might have known all along.

Naturally, a few moments after Peter leaves, Spider-Man appears, and he saves May from Alfred Molina's Doc Ock. They swing through the city. May is now in close proximity to Peter, a boy she raised and probably hugged countless times. Surely, one might assume that hugging Spider-Man would give May a clue. She's dropped off, Spider-Man swings away, and, wouldn't you know it? Peter returns home shortly thereafter. Did May actually think Peter vanished at a crucial moment, only to reappear later to talk? 

Later in the film, May is packing bags — she has to move out due to money troubles — and a neighborhood kid named Henry is helping her. Peter has, at that point in the film, given up on being Spider-Man, much to the dismay of many, including Henry. May talks about how real heroes come from inside of all of us, and how they tend to inspire others. Her entire speech is as follows:

"He knows a hero when he sees one. Too few characters out there, flying around like that, saving old girls like me. And Lord knows, kids like Henry need a hero. Courageous, self-sacrificing people. Setting examples for all of us. Everybody loves a hero. People line up for them, cheer them, scream their names. And years later, they'll tell how they stood in the rain for hours just to get a glimpse of the one who taught them how to hold on a second longer. I believe there's a hero in all of us, that keeps us honest, gives us strength, makes us noble, and finally allows us to die with pride, even though sometimes we have to be steady, and give up the thing we want the most. Even our dreams."